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About Steven Gledhill

My name is Steven Gledhill, a certified substance use disorder (SUD) professional of more than two decades. I am narried with three sons and two grandsons. I recognize that every person who's ever lived is subject to the human condition, valuing self and the need for control above all else. Therefore, all are inclined to be self-centered with the preoccupation to be absolutely satisfied and comfortable. The prerequisite for satisfying comfort is the control that all seek and that none attain. Furthermore, all of us are vulnerable to temptation and challenged desperately to resist it. We have all given ourselves over to human desire and have fallen to temptation and engaged in behavior that has potential for harm and so we all have experienced harm. We have all have experienced the pain and discomfort associated with unfavorable outcomes from self-centered behavior to one degree or another. It is only in relationship with God through Jesus Christ that anyone and everyone has the opportunity for restoration from the ills of self-centered thinking and behavior. Faith in the living God when realized through experience, appeals most to our intellectual sensibilities. Transformed by a renewed mind, it is reasonable to anticipate that God is involved with us becuase of his love for us. Relationship with God is reasonable and is as real as anything you have ever seen, heard, touched, smelled, and tasted. The Bible says, "Taste and see that the Lord is good. (The word, Lord, speak's to God's sovereignty; something even Albert Einstein believed about God.)

“I Hate Myself… or Do I? (Restoring Self-Esteem)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Often central to the war within the mind is the notion that feeling unworthy and undeserving of love reflects the absence of self-love. The reality is that if we did not love … Continue reading

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Depression Obsession (Finding the Right Road to Freedom)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project “Progress means getting nearer to the place you want to be. And if you have taken a wrong turning, then to go forward does not get you any nearer. If you are … Continue reading

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New Age Living (and oh by the way, your feet stink)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray that the … Continue reading

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Justified… Just if I’d Never Needed a Root Canal

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project  All Scripture is from the New International Version unless otherwise noted. Feeling like a failure, I am rotting in decay deep into the root of who I am. I need a root … Continue reading

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Bound for Glory, by Vertical Worship Band

Verse 1: This world is not my home I’m here for a moment It’s all I’ve ever known But this world is not my home The fight is not my own These burdens aren’t my future The empty tomb has … Continue reading

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The Original CBT Manual (for Christ-Centered Clinicians)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project FREEdom from MEdom Project (FFMP) is a unique opportunity to merge together the best of evidenced-based cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) approaches with faith-driven Christ-centered 12-Step power for a transformative new life experience. This … Continue reading

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Are You Numb to the Glory? (Beware of Complacency)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project In church this morning, we were asked this question: “Are you numb to the glory?” Why would Pastor Fran Leeman* ask such a question? What does it mean? Pastor Leeman’s sermon text was … Continue reading

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Sympathetic Savior: The Sacrifice of Jesus

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project If you are looking for Jesus on the cross, you’ll not find Him there. Your sin has been removed from your past, present, and future. The stone that has kept you in … Continue reading

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Heaven, Hell, Three-foot Forks, and My Problem with Hank

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project See that no one pays back wrong for wrong, but at all times make it your aim to do good to one another and to all people. Be joyful always, pray at … Continue reading

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Romancing the Stone (Beware of What You Worship)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Romancing the Stone is the worship of idols we have erected from our entitlement-driven obsessions that direct us in our worship of self (worship is, “extravagant respect or admiration for or devotion … Continue reading

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Sympathetic Savior: Christ’s Relationships

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Ask yourself this question: Why is it so hard to believe that the three-person union that is God (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit) could by choice “create” the visible manifestation of Himself … Continue reading

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Doubt in the Madness of the Perfect Storm

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom for MEdom Project O Lord, what are human beings that you should notice them,     mere mortals that you should think about them? Psalm 144:3 (NLT) Do you feel guilty or faithless before God when you … Continue reading

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Trapped in a Life on Fire! (and still playing with matches)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom for MEdom Project There are many among us not fully comprehending their need of God. There may be days when you or I do not fully realize our need for God. The following message was … Continue reading

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Dying Into New Life: The Reason We’re Born… Again

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Series Three times Jesus pleaded to our Lord for grace Three times he was denied grace by the plan Three times he was denied grace by a man Three days he was denied … Continue reading

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Measured Faith (Belief Enough?)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Jesus immediately reached out and grabbed him. “You have so little faith,” Jesus said. “Why did you doubt me?” Matthew 14:31 (NLT) Jesus asked: “Why do you have so little faith? So don’t … Continue reading

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Step by Step… One Day at a Time (A 12-Step Study)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project Jesus said, “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day … Continue reading

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Sympathetic Savior: Christ’s Temptation

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project James wrote that God cannot do wrong or even be tempted to do wrong. Jesus, having laid down all divine privilege as God, fully man, was tempted to sin. He was tempted … Continue reading

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Restoration Trifecta (Peter’s Restored)

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project After we have been dirty for awhile (sinful behavior), we can trust that Jesus will wash us clean. He even forgets about our sinful behavior. We can as much as deny Jesus Christ … Continue reading

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I Don’t Know That Man! (Peter’s Betrayal)

30 Then they sang a hymn and went out to the Mount of Olives. 31 On the way, Jesus told them, “Tonight all of you will desert me. For the Scriptures say, ‘God will strike the Shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will … Continue reading

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A Call to Consistency

by Steven Gledhill for FREEdom from MEdom Project I want to thank each and every one of you that have spent some time in FREEdom from MEdom Project. I hope from the bottom of my heart that you were and … Continue reading

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